Why we exist

Being a man today isn’t easy. It’s heavy. It’s loud. It’s a grind that gives us a dozen ways to stumble and very few places to breathe. Most of us have felt the weight of expectations — protect, provide, stand tall — while wondering if anyone is watching our six when life blindsides us.

When a man hits that wall of defeat, he usually doesn’t run to a book or a podcast. He looks for another man who’s been there — bruised, humbled, but standing. Because deep down, we’ve all walked through moments where we felt like failures. And in that desperation, we’re tempted to chase cheap peace: false pleasures, empty trophies, and the fleeting comfort of a broken heart trying to lead itself.

Scripture warns us about that — the heart can be deceitful. Left unchecked, it pulls us into choices that take us down roads we never meant to walk, places that feel too far gone to ever come back from.

Carry Your Cross Ministries gets it because we’re not speaking theory — we’re speaking testimony. We’re a brotherhood of imperfect, busted-up men who’ve been redeemed and rebuilt by the blood of Jesus. Our calling is simple: be the hands and feet of Christ, offering the wisdom the Holy Spirit has hammered into us through our own battles.

“If anyone wants to come with Me, he must deny himself, pick up his cross, and follow Me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will save it.”

Luke 9:23-24

“Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest...

My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”

(Matt. 11:28–29)

Are life’s burdens wearing you out? Do you feel empty, frustrated, ashamed, or alone? Have you bought the lie that “being a man” means carrying all of this by yourself?

Jesus never asked you to do that.

If anything in this hits home, Carry Your Cross Ministries would be honored to walk with you — to hear your story, share our struggles and victories in Christ, and shoulder some of that weight with you as you learn to carry your cross His way, not the world’s way.

This brotherhood is open to every man who wants the freedom, fullness, and abundance that only the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit can give.

our mission

At Carry Your Cross Ministries, we believe that every man is called to walk in the strength humility, and purpose that Christ Himself modeled. Our desire is to create a clear, God-honoring pathway for men to build authentic, Christ-centered relationships—shoulder to shoulder, not in isolation. We gather in the very places God has crafted with His own hands, believing the outdoors provides a powerful setting for men to encounter the Father, hear His voice, and grow in boldness.

Scripture teaches that when a man leads his home according to God’s design, blessing flows through the entire household. For this reason, we are committed to equipping men to lead with integrity, courage, and spiritual clarity. Through meaningful challenges, shared experiences, and purposeful fellowship, we provide opportunities for men to forge bonds that strengthen the heart, sharpen the mind, and refine the soul.

We reject the lie that a man must carry the burdens of this world alone. Christ calls us to take up our cross and follow Him—not in isolation, but in unity with our brothers. As Peter exhorts us, we strive to “always be prepared to give an answer for the hope that is within us,” building that readiness through discipleship, small-group study, and one-on-one mentorship.

Each year we host one or two large gatherings where men can encounter the Holy Spirit in a powerful way, connect with fellow believers, and step into deeper discipleship. Our mission is to help men embrace the abundant life Jesus offers—strengthening marriages, deepening relationships with children, and empowering men to carry Christ into their workplaces and communities.

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